Ashram Mondays

No.89

With Venus making some changes in the sky from the 18th this month of October.. I was drawn to do a love reading. Since Mercury finally sorted itself out of retrograde and the full moon which usually brings about more heightened emotions and brings your desires into fruition.. we may have all been feeling rather introspective lately but with a push and drive to go go go.

Another feeling is that we may get a bit dreamy romantic.. so this time is more about seeing what someone brings to the table, use your discernment as to whether that is what you want or need, and you may need to see past the snake oil charmers and stand by actions speak louder than words. It may be that this is a time for you to put your foot down about what you truly need.. and not accept any less. Be vigilant.

We may be looking at past relationships, or present ones, and along with it the uncomfortable task of searching within and taking a long hard look at our patterns, our behaviours with others in love.. perhaps what went wrong with some, perhaps what could improve with others. Wherever you find yourself, know that this uncomfortable process leads you to self-reflect for greater improvement and happiness and fulfilment in love.

Life and love have its ups and downs.. but if you've been thinking about someone, a situation in your present, past life or a wish for the future.. focus on the pile of cards above and whichever one you are most drawn to, check out the reading below.

As always, take what resonates and throw away what doesn't. This is a general reading.. and remember if one pile does not resonate check one of the other piles or perhaps one of my past readings you might be drawn to. There may br a message there for you.

For now.. enjoy!

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Pile 1:

Well hello there Pile 1.. if you have chosen this pile then I see two scenarios here.. either you and someone in your life are connected in a relationship and possibly going through difficult times at present or the person you feel connected to is in another partnership or marriage.

A karmic, for those who don't know, is related to karma, or someone you are drawn to that causes some heartache or turmoil in your life as lessons to grow you and them,. These relationships usually do not stick around but are in your life in order to make all those involved, grow. It's uncomfortable and fateful.

If you have picked this pile and you have been wondering if the feeling is mutual.. the answer is yes.

Romantic feelings. Your feelings are real and worth exploring

They most certainly are! These feelings are within.. yes it can also mean to explore feelings you and someone else have for each other, but with the clarifying b/w oracle cards, you may have had a committed relationship with someone that was already in a marriage or partnership with someone else or you currently find yourself in a relationship with someone that things have been up and down with, triggering, difficult with plenty of turmoil.

My feeling here is that self-love must come above and beyond a relationship.. if you are not treated well, you do not feel happy but find yourself holding onto this situation. I was speaking to a friend yesterday about being on our own but not feeling lonely.. solitude is better than solace and learning to enjoy your life, whether with someone or not, is an art form in itself and is a learned situation.

It may be that this situation has been on your mind.. or physically you and your partner have been having discussions or need to.

The real feeling I get from this card is to let go of the outcome and focus on yourself and self-love.. the cycle is complete with this person and it's get out entirely if you haven't already or move it up to the next level but this latter would need to resolve issues you have been having.

But you are not going crazy feeling the way you do.. there is a mirror of emotions here so the other person feels the same way about you, controversially even if they are in another partnership. Life is about choice.. and we all have free will.

For this reason set yourself free to go within and look at this situation through clear eyes.. imagine that a friend was in exactly your shoes.. what would you observe? What would you tell him/her? What can you see is the outcome?

Living in the present moment will allow you to find a solution but also walks in nature and all the atumnal colours out there (at least here in the Uk and Northern Hemisphere) or the lovely greenery of spring awakening should help calm your mind and emotions.

You deserve happiness.. just remember that. So if your friend, in your shoes, asks what they should do.. what would be your response for their greatest happiness?.. you are important. Make sure your needs have a voice in your life. At the same time.. take time to reflect and if you feel stuck not knowing what to do, refocus on you and slowly, very gently, the Universe will guide you to better times. They are coming.. hang in there.

Love and Light☀️

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Pile 2:

Well hello there my lovely Pile 2.. if you have picked this pile and have been wondering where things are going with someone in your life. They may have ghosted you but believe me they observe all that you do online and social media.

This could be the one. You've already met the romantic partner you seek

This pile is about someone you already know, perhaps have dated or perhaps it never got to that. You may have felt connected to someone but they disappeared from your life leaving you wondering if they feel the same about you at all.. they so do!

The Universe has orchestrated this break so that you can both focus on your careers, work, education.. it's time to forge your future and as you heal perhaps from situations with this person or past relationships.. this person will be back in your life.

They are still observing you.. or perhaps this is entirely the other way round. Take it as it resonates.. either way, the person that has gaslighted is the one returning. You may bump into each other again, as this is not a new person, it could be a mutual friends party, an outing or they simply send you a message out of the blue.

When the time is right.. things may progress further. If you were looking for a new romantic partner and wondering who your next partner will be.. it may just be someone from your past returning before anyone new comes forth.

Either way.. it will prove a great source of healing.. it just needs the right time for it all to fall like dominoes.

Love and Light☀️

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Pile 3:

Well hello Pile 3.. if you have chosen this pile and have been in a bit of a conundrum situation in a relationship, you feel you need the other person in your life to feel happy, they may be in another relationship as well but unlike Pile 1, this has proven to be a bit of a toxic situation in your life.. then know all this is about to change.. suddenly and fast!!!

Codependency. Addictions are affecting your romantic life.

I've been there before.. someone dazzles you and you fall hard.. but you're not really happy. It is a relationship of needs not love. You will need to do some soul searching to find the solution here for you but this is very much a journey you may need to make if you were specifically drawn to Pile 3.

Perhaps you have been the other person in this relationship.. but transformation is nigh..

Sometimes we make choices that are less than for our own good in life and at some point the Universe will intervene, if you do not come it a realisation yourself, and bring circumstances to a head to force you to confront this.

It is the Universe protecting.. but at the moment or in the recent past it would not have been the best situation in your life.

Codependency is both parties depend on each other in order for them to be ok individually.. they get something from this relationship.. but it isn't with self-love.

There may actually be addictions of substance abuse and this has been affecting your relationship.. know that this is about to end and a massively huge epiphany is about to take place. It's a bit of a shocker so hang onto your panties.. just know that as the poop hits the fan, you will also see things for what they are and realise perhaps that you need to change your life. The lightning is very much like the Rider Waite, Tower card.. it's building better foundations for the next level in your life to be stronger and unbreakable.. but first the old system will need to be torn down.

The tower is also a card about inner revelations so if there isn't a drastic sudden change or transformation in a situation in your life, then there will be that sudden enlightenment in your mind that will bring further transformation from the inside, out.

Just know that this needs to happen in order for love you truly step into your life, whether a renewed situation with this person or a brand new soulmate. Focus on yourself and find nature to help bring inner peace for a solution.

Love and Light☀️

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Pile 4:

Well hello there lovely Pile 4.. for those of you who have chosen this pile, I feel there is a choice coming up in your life.

If you have met your Twin Flame or not, for those who are not sure what a Twin Flame or Twin Flame journey is please check on google, you may be faced with a choice between a Tein Flame and someone new.

Keep an open mind. Your soul mate may differ from your usual type and expectations.

Yes.. this card is all about how we zone in and look for an exact type of person but remember that this 'type', whatever that is for you, may have led you down the garden path of disappointment and disillusion.

This angel message is telling you that the moment is now or very soon for you to meet someone incredible.. someone that may be very different from the sort of person you go for. We usually present a small facet of ourselves in public and that may not be entirely a true account of who we really are. We could be anxious, have a bad day, not been feeling well, suffering from depression or mental health.. or perhaps the other person is like that, not funny as you are usually attracted to, or super chatty.. or maybe even dark haired instead of blonde. The initial contact is just that.. but this card is telling you that you will meet someone who is not your usual type but will indeed be such a beautiful good match for you.

It may be that you already have met someone in your life that made your blood boil, made you sad and suffer.. this is the Tein Flame journey.. well it may be between your Twin Flame's return and someone new!

This message is for you to choose wisely.. what are they bringing to the table? Truly?.. actions speak louder than words so observe what is truly in front of you and be aware that fast action with no means to be in a relationship may not be what you are looking for.

Time to put your foot down and know your boundaries!.. we may feel a bit dreamy during the time of some planetary action from Venus but it also means we need to reaffirm our values. If what you are being offered falls short of what you want.. put your foot down and honour your needs.

But if you find yourself entirely single, no strings or Twin Flame abound.. brace yourself!.. there is choice and at least two people coming into your life that may rock your world. Take it at your pace and choose with both head and heart!

Love and Light☀️