Ashram Monday’s
- HumanKintsugi
- Sep 5, 2022
- 7 min read

No.83
Today I was shown the colour of the vise-versa mint green box so I knew that was the one for todays Ashram reading but also was guided towards the Love Oracle Cards.
Todays reading is for those of you who have been and associate themselves as being on a Twin Flame journey. For the record a Twin Flame is not a journey into a toxic relationship as many readers deem that to be a Wrong Flame journey.. it is not a Twin Flame journey.. please do not stay in a toxic relationship believing it is this. I certainly do not condone a relationship that belittles, makes one insecure and fearful.. please use your discernment here.
What is a Twin Flame journey I hear some of you ask?.. it is said that historically we were one flame/soul split into two, a Twin Flame.. another soul that is your perfect fit, your opposite and yet you are both magnetically attracted to each other even if you can’t figure out why that feeling is there or where it came from.
Twin Flame journeys are universally troublesome and difficult.. when you meet your twin soul they show you a mirror to see all that is good and bad within yourself and vise-versa.. what you do to them. You don’t physically hold up a mirror ofcourse but it’s a metaphor for reflecting all that you are back to you and it is always a difficult task looking under scrutiny the negative traits and aspects about yourself. Mostly fears.
Twin Flames can meet in each lifetime when the Universe or Spirit look to grow you, enlightenment, change that is needed for you to hurdle over your own personal demons and obstacles and become a more enlightened soul in this lifetime.
When Twin Flames meet (they could be on opposite sides of the world and still be drawn to each other) they hold up this reflection which automatically triggers the cycle of Twin Flames into a runner and a chaser. The chaser is the person that recognises an unmistakable pull and decides to reach out to their twin while the runner is not ready and still has potentially toxicity, addictions, a karmic (another relationship with someone that teaches them lessons) to deal with.
It is only when the chaser gives up, potentially has been hurt or wounded by their Twin Flame that the roles reverse and the chaser becomes the runner.. and the runner now undergone much transformative change, becomes the chaser. When this happens there is a possibility for both flames to have union.. but there are always choices.. and potentially neither unite and go through the soulmate route.
Not to out a ‘less’ value on soulmates but these souls will deal familiar to you, it will be ease and flow, you are on the same page and have much in common. Your Twin Flame will be difficult, many differences but those differences bring the greatest change and evolution to your soul path.. the journey your soul makes through several lifetimes.. before being able to unite with their Twin Flame.
The key difference in knowing whether you are in a Twin Flame journey is that it’s difficult, it is absolutely undeniably magnetic, the attraction therefore is off-the-scales and you have gone or are going through a separation.. in some cases right now.
The top card is your main card but the two cards in the middle are the clarifiers/past and they flung out of the deck together with the main card though they were faced down. The bottom of the deck wanted to be involved too adding to the message and general feel of the reading.. The Vise-Versa deck was used to confirm the message and it most certainly has! But it being an image on both sides of the card I didn’t include that in the photo above (there is no ‘back’ of that deck as such) but will be added below for the reading.
I didn’t know this was going to be a Twin Flame reading until I got here but I certainly did not imagine that the first deck I picked would have supported the main message for you.
Please note that todays message is likely more specific but please take this if it resonates and dutch the rest as this will not resonate completely with every reader.
So for now.. let us begin!! ☀️

Cupids Arrow - main message
Paradise & Heartbroken - Past
Coffin - Foundation and general msg to the main reading
So let’s start at the bottom.. Coffin.. this card is all about liberation and change, like the Death card in the Rider Waite and most other tarot decks, this card signals a transformation.. like metamorphosis. It is self transformation but also that of a situation or relationship.
Where the Paradise and Heartbroken card tells me more of the past situation, happiness and loss I feel that you both are undergoing a feeling of separation and missing each other.
Now as the Coffin card states, ‘endings bring nee beginnings’.. the nee beginnings being ‘Cupid’s Arrow’.. makes me feel that if this reading resonates you may have been the chaser in this connection, were heartbroken and are currently in separation of your Twin Flame.. not only that there is a choice coming up for you in your future.. your Twin Flame (someone you have already met btw this is not new) or a new person into your life. Cupid’s Arrow is reserved for heart connections and a surprise meeting may sway your heart and you decide to leave the past in the past.
This is part of the Twin Flame journey.. part of it is to learn to trust again but in some cases the burn of the past actions have been to great to bridge.. The Universe/Spirit will always bring you options.. even if you connect and want nothing to do with a soulmate this new person provides just the comparison that you need to finally make a change in your own life. Or it could make the runner, the other person, have a small panic attack knowing they may lose you forever to finally step up and reappear in your life.
Know that the decision is always yours for this. A soulmate brings much love, ease, honesty into your life and makes for a much less complicated emotional rollercoaster ride which after undergoing heartbreak with your Twin, will most certainly look like Paradise!
Whether you wish to reunite with your Twin Flame or wish for someone new.. these people are (re)entering into your life suddenly. I’m getting the picture of the Tower Card in my head which makes me feel it’s going to be a full on unexpected shock! Get ready.. it’s all go for the start of September!
Your Vise-Versa clarifiers..


Just wow!.. I mean the Major Arcana, The Lovers card is ALL Twin Flames.. the two Minor Arcana cards; King of Swords and the 2 of Swords both have the aspects of Air.. which I’m picking up two meanings for.
The star sign of the person you may be dealing with can be, strongly, a Gemini.. or one of the other air signs, Libra, Aquarius. This could be you or either of you can have Air strongly featured in your chart. The Lovers card is Gemini and it being a Major Arcana bears a much stronger sway on the reading. So if any of this applies.. there may be a message specifically here for you.
IF you are an air sign.. you feature here in your king/masculine/yang energy (no gender specific reading here) and you will be facing a choice where you may cut off the past and choose a soulmate over your Twin Flame. The choice is in your hands but I feel for this message, you or your Twin are in swords mode.. not only that.. a King which makes me feel that there is some finality in a decision being made in the future. Either way make this decision with both your heart and head though the cards are saying to use mostly your logic in this situation.. I still always tell others to check in with their hearts when it comes to love as that is its home.. either way you may be in your head about the decision.. notice the figure in the two of Swords is blindfolded, making their choice internally, checking in with their head and heart.. the choices.. soulmate or Twin Flame/past love, or the option of head over heart perhaps. Sit with it as the answer will come to you but the King of Swords in the middle of choice or the Twin Flame card is a choice. It is on its way to you, going back to Cupid’s card.
Another scenario and message I’m getting is that this is your Twin Flame.. if they are an air sign particularly a Gemini this is a strong indication that there is a message in for you. This person is recognising your importance and your magnetism.. they are someone who is usually in their heads and continue to be in their heads about contacting you again.. ‘should I, shouldn’t I.. I wish to move ahead with my head but my heart is tied and why?.. Why can I not forget them?.. What should I do?.. Which way should I go?.. How should I approach them again where I do not look bad’. Basically here your Twin is going through transformation still but I’m feeling the connection is very suddenly, completely out of the blue, surprise you. Get ready.. this is going to pull the rug out from under you in a positive way.. if you wish to reunite with your Twin Flame, then make sure you allow them to talk, make sure they have only good intentions towards you and that they treat you with respect.. perhaps even apologise to you for how they have treated you. Your Twin has been thinking a heck of a lot and I mean like a LOT about you.. they have things to say to you and they are finally speaking from their heart. They are shown as a King.. not a Page or a Knight. This is a mature energy.. one that speaks of journeying to find themselves and here they stand whole and complete, arriving sure of what they want and what decision to make in their lives. If your situation had been one of confusion, toxicity and chaos.. this person has finally grown into their own power and the hesitation now may only be ‘how’ to approach you and not if they will.
Either way and for whatever part of this message that resonates with you.. know that you are worth every bit of love and to start this off, self-love is always our highest priority otherwise we are not giving our true selves to others.
Know that Twin or not you deserve happiness.. follow the guidance of your happiness and heart and the rest of life always falls into place!
Love and Light☀️
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