Ashram Monday’s : 101
- HumanKintsugi
- Jan 9, 2023
- 4 min read

No.101
Today I woke up in my least romantic state as I could.. yet was drawn to these cards. You're welcome! Also if you were looking for a romantic edge to your msg, are not in a relationship or have been in one that has been split for various reasons.. there may be a message here for you. If you are not romantically inclined, I feel the main card will still bring you a message.. please don't let the romantic aspect deter you from your message.
Also.. The moon was gloriously full and so this oracle card seemed appropriate to use!
So without any further delays.. let's tackle the energies of today's reading head on!
My readings are not time stamped, are not gender biased and I do not look at the book definition of the cards used if there is one for it.. but do use the book as an extra message or guidance from the universe if you feel like reading it. It is included below the card.
Let us begin..

Your main card of the day, is Growth! Also Waxing Crescent is the phase of the moon when the moon is growing from new moon to a full moon. This could relate to timing for you.. either happened recently from last year to this year or will happen in just over a fortnight or so.
We have received this card before.. I shuffled the deck thoroughly and she literally flipped out.. so the message is still clear for those who did not see it or feel it the first time. But also, the beginning of a year does bring with it the industrial Capricornian strength of getting your head down and rolling up your sleeves for progress and slow steady change.
She holds with her a clock and her dress is made of mother nature herself as if she has sprung from spring. All this grows from a nest egg towards the skies.. but the roots and tree trunk look old, well established.
Whatever you have been working on, you are awaiting returns on, it is on the way. Whether work, relationships, homes.. it is a matter of divine timing! Be patient, keep on growing and changing, and you will see things change with you.
For the egg to hatch, that is, for your plans to come into fruition, happens only when what is inside is ready to blossom.. but it also depends on external factors, seasons, warmth, incubating.
Which brings me to the relationship part of this reading..

I used the White Rose Guidance cards as they are full of direct replies and thoughts. You may relate to the black cards with white text, or the white cards with black text.. either way, one is one person and the other, another. I feel two separate energies. Also not gender specific.
Black: Your name follows me everywhere! How do I get you alone?
White: You are healing my soul, but it is a work in progress. You are my everything .
Growth in this context is that you have both been separated for a reason.. or perhaps you have been estranged from your partner for some time. It is obvious to me that a break or distancing has had to happen for things to grow from here.. for each one of you to grow separately so that you may come back together more wholesome and with more to give to each other.
If you have been on a complete break from someone then know that they have been thinking about you and still feel deeply for you.
If you are relating to the Black cards as yourself then you've been trying to have a conversation with your person and perhaps have heard friends talk about them casually, seen posts on social media that have brought them to the forefront of your mind. Perhaps you see them when you are amongst friends. The fact is they have needed to address something within themselves that needed to be fixed from previous relationship(s) or childhood but they still hold strong feelings for you. Growth here is what you have both been actively doing to heal and progress to your best self in the world. Whether you are together or not, time will tell. But keep on this rewarding journey, as they continue on theirs, and it is likely you will bump into each other again when it's time.. or you will receive a message out of the blue or perhaps you feel inspired to message them!.. when the time is right, you will know to follow your inspiration (not your impulse.. you know the difference to feel what is powering this action.. need or flow?).
If you are relating to the White cards as yourself well you have been going through deep transformation. These things take time and there is no rushing it. Just like the egg that needs the right ingredients and a long incubation period, so do you to self care and nurture yourself with healing. Past traumas do affect us throughout life. My understanding from what I've read is that by the age of 8 we have already accumulated our life's baggage and see everything through our 8yr old tinted glasses. Fixing that and any other traumas we go through beyond that.. is our individual life's work.
But you do have strong feelings for your person.. though did they hurt you?.. Perhaps you have been scared to commit or take things further. Either way, know that when the time is right, you will be able to overcome your blockages and fly. Whether with your person or another that comes along that will match your energy. Be open and flow as the Universe brings in exactly what you are projecting and what is meant for you so carry on the good work of growing and healing.
As for your person.. they have been thinking of a way to reach out. Perhaps they always see you surrounded by other people, on social media, and are wondering how to reconnect with you. They're a little tormented in their heads.. classic overthinker.
Whatever message you relate to.. divine timing is at play but my recommendation is that you follow your own goals, vocation and healing in life. What is yours will not pass you by and what has been around you has taught you something important about yourself that perhaps might have been painful, triggering. Just know that this card says that although there is timing at play.. there is also the certainty that all your hard work will have a positive outcome. Hang in there.
Wishing you a great week ahead
Love and Light☀️
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